How to Talk to a Girl Without It Getting Boring

Do you have problems keeping a conversation
going with a woman you like or just met?
Talking to a girl may seem daunting, but it's
actually very simple. Follow these five steps and
you'll never go wrong.

1. Ask her questions.

Girls love sharing information about themselves. Don't
be afraid to ask her questions. If
something interests you about the girl
you're talking to (let's say her
necklace or job) ask her something
about it.

2. Find out what she likes and focus
on that .

Once you ask her questions,
try to hone in on her interests. Does
she like psychology or astrology or
writing? Does she sing or play an
instrument? Does she play a sport or
activity? Find these out and center
your conversation on these things.

3. Focus on your similarities.

If you focus on your similarities, this makes
the conversation much more smooth
and shows that you're interested, too.
If you agree with her about
something, tell her you agree and
keep talking about it. This creates
momentum. Both of you should be
saying, "Yes" or "Me, too!" a lot in the
conversation.

4. "What's the story behind that?"

If you see something interesting that
she's wearing -- a pin, a necklace, a
bracelet, etc. -- ask her "what's the
story behind that?" This works like a
charm on a lot of women.

5. Don't take things too seriously.

Always be joking and playful when
talking. Never take anything she says
or you say seriously. Girls are very self-
conscious and self-critical -- they tend
to avoid people who make them feel
more self-conscious and critical. The
less serious you are, the more girls will
want to be around you.